Saying goodbye to loved ones

I debated posting this because it's not all roses around here and while the blog is focused on a lot of our happy highlights, I thought it might be equally important to share in some of the sad moments too.

Many of you were aware (through the prayer request post) of my Aunt Josie's declining health and ultimate passing. I am sad to report that my dear childhood friend, Resa, lost her mother, Kathy McLaughlin late Monday night to lung cancer. I'd love to say that we had enough time to grasp the concept of her losing this battle, but the reality is that within three short weeks, she went from going in to see about blood clots in her legs to being diagnosed with what must have been aggressive late stage lung cancer. The online journal her son, Chris, set up to keep friends and family up to date, started April 18. I believe this was the date the cancer was diagnosed. Within days, she went from a fighter, staying strong and positive to completely consumed by the cancer. Last Thursday Chris wrote in the journal, and one sentence he wrote just absolutely got me: 'I have never seen someone deteriorate so fast.' No e-mail alerts all weekend long. Even in prayer, my heart was preparing for the worst. Sunday rolled around and I thought to myself 'ok, I should just check into the website and see what the latest is' - turns out Chris had *just* updated the journal to include that she was too weak for chemotherapy and that she was given just six weeks to live and sent home on Hospice.
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She died Monday evening at 11:15 p.m.
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I am very sad for a lot of reasons. My friend, Resa, just lost her mother and I don't even have the words to express my sorrow for her. If I could take the anguish and heartache from her, I would. Her mom was just so incredibly generous - she was the "give you the shirt off her back" kind of generosity. She hosted the baby shower for me in her home when I was pregnant with Ashley and even let me borrow their family cradle for her. I'm sad because death has been very close to me in such a short time. It's hard to wrap my head around all of this. It's easier to ignore it all and not deal with it, but the reality is (when it *does* hit) life is short and it makes me miss the family members who are currently not in my life. I spoke with my mother-in-law on Monday about Kathy and she mentioned that it was a blessing in ways that she was declining so rapidly. A blessing for Kathy, but a total blindside for all those left behind. It's true that if you have to die of something so incredibly painful, that our merciful God will let you go quickly. The aftermath for her family is something they have to work out themselves. But I know He knows they are strong enough to do it. It's just hard wrap our heads around thinking about things like 'a month ago she was fine' or the fact that this Sunday is Mother's Day. It's surreal...that's for sure.

Here's to you Kathy Mac. You are loved. You will be missed.


{this was taken five days after Ashley was born, April 30, 1996}
Kathy is kneeling in the front, along with Shelvie and me in the back

{this is a picture of me with my great Aunt Josie (right) and my great Aunt Nicky (left)
with Ashley (four months old) in Waco on our way to Austin so I could finish my degree at UT}

What a smile!

I did two takes of Drew doing his army crawl. The first time I realized the lens was dirty (uh hem...Ashley) and stopped 'film', but not before I caught a really cute smile from Drew. I just couldn't bear the thought of wasting such a great smile, so enjoy!

To Alice and Chris - thank you :-)

I am so utterly horrible with my 'thank you's', but Aunt Alice & Uncle Chris gave this outfit to Drew just after he was born and when I looked at the size, 3-6M, my immediate thought was whether the weather would prove to be an obstacle in his getting to wear it. My kids don't typically have a track record of being large babies and the weather here in Austin can be a bit goofy. This year it proved to be goofy enough that we were able to put him in his super cute cords and waffle shirt for church twice and I thought I would share what a handsome guy he is in his Sunday getup. These were taken just this past Sunday - proof that even in Texas, you can still get "chilly" weather in May - at least in the mornings! Enjoy!

THANK YOU ALICE AND CHRIS!

Making a mountain lion out of a mole hill?

**Additional information**
This is from a fellow mom from my local MOMS club:

This is wild! My neighbor's friend has one of the homes with and iron fence that backs up to the greenbelt. Four kids were playing in her backyard, and they came running inside saying they saw a cheetah in the greenbelt! This happened before the news clip.

It was a big cat. Mountain Lions can cover a huge distance in one day. Hopefully they will catch him (they set traps out) or he will just leave on his own.


Be careful out there.

**THE ORIGINAL STORY**

According to this news story, a "big cat" was spotted ONE BLOCK from our house!! Those of you who have been to our house before know that we have a lot of greenbelt type areas and with the new construction going on not far from our house, it's feasible that they've disturbed the wildlife in our area, but a MOUNTAIN LION?! That had me up worried about the kids going to school on their own. At long last, I decided I was making a mountain out of a molehill...rather, a mountain lion out of a molehill.

Oh, and by the way, if you can see the tail the caption says is supposedly in the picture? Let me know because Neil and I both struggled to see anything that resembles a tail...just lots of grass and leaves and one tree trunk. I'm stumped, to say the least, lol.

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If I have to give credit where credit is due, you'll have to go to Kevin's blog (ok, so not really *Kevin's* so much as it's Aria's blog) to see where that tail ended up being. I feel sheepish now, not seeing that tail in the first place!! How did we miss that?!

Oh, what passes for entertainment in the Kreitzer house!

So...I finally found all the videos (of poor {ok, scratch that, lesser} quality) and I figured it was time for a trip down memory lane. A lot of these are taken by Ashley - i.e. what happens when you leave your camera laying around.

So, I'll start recent and go back a bit each time. This one showcases Drew in the bathtub doing his calisthenics. You'll have to excuse the doodle shots.