Weight Gain? Yes. Enough to impress the pedi? Not so much...

Drew's nine month appt. was yesterday (8/26) and while he *did* gain weight, he's still not gaining at a pace the pediatrician is comfortable with. Click HERE for the full story. His weight was 14lbs. 5.5 oz. That puts him in the < 5% for weight. His height and head circumference dropped a bit. The pediatrician is concerned we are looking at malabsorption. So we are on the schedule to see a GI specialist (gastrointestinal) and are doing some more testing on Drew in the meantime.

Memorable Firsts and Other Notables

• * Born - Saturday, November 24, 2007 2:30 a.m.
• * Weight - 7lbs. 10oz.
• * Height 19 1/4 inches
• * Mouth - very tiny, only one inch across!
• * Nickname - peepers
• * First "real" bath - November 25
• * 3-day appt. November 27 - dropped to 6lbs.7oz.
• * Cord fell off - November 27
• * Weight check - Friday, November 30 6lbs.10oz.
• * Held head up - December 1
• * More alert/awake - December 1
• * Looks around, lays on back - December 5
• * 2 week appt. - Friday, December 7 7lbs.3oz.
• * Found his thumb - December 8
• * Baptism - January 12 - Deacon Dennis Egan performed the ceremony
• * First smile - January 11
• * Smiles when you ask and then breaks into coos and laughter, week of January 14-18
• * Starts doing stomach crunches - 2/11-15
• * Rolls over consistently from back to stomach - February 25
• * Plays the music on his playmat - March 4
• * Finds his feet - March 17
• * Tried rice cereal - March 26
• * Tried first solids, apples - April 6
• * First babysitter (Amy) while Neil and I went to dinner - he slept the whole time! Woo hoo! April 10
• * Practices "scooching" on the floor - week of April 21-25
• * Sits up assisted; unassisted with a large toy in front of him - May 9-15
• * Rocks on hands and knees - May 18
• * Coordinates hands/knees for crawling - May 28
• * Officially a crawler and a 'puller-upper'! June 1
• * Pulls self to sitting from crawling - July 6
• * Climbs up the stairs - July 7
• * Shakes his head 'no' when we say 'no no no' - week of July 21-25
• * Waves 'hello' and 'bye bye' - August 6
• * Learns to clap - August 24
• * Learns to dance and nod his head when we say 'yes, yes, yes' - August 29
• * Learns to stand - October 16
• * Takes his first step! Twice, same foot - I guess he was going for a circle, lol - November 4

Ashley's birthday pics and hey, only a month late!

{Are you sure it's ok to order off that kids menu there?? We went to The Oasis to celebrate Ashley's birthday.}

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{Paige burns a few calories before having a piece of cake}

{The wind proved to be so much of a challenge that...}

{...Ashley pretended to blow out the candles.}{Jamie and Miss Anya}{yes, I *did* enjoy a piece of yummy cake - I took one for the team since Neil didn't have any - he had just started p90x}

Happy Mother's Day!

I thought I'd better sneak in a post before the day is over and share this nice picture Neil took of us on the swing.

I hope you all have a wonderful Mother's Day.

Additionally, if you'd like to see the award I won for MOTHER OF THE YEAR, click away!

Happy First Holy Communion, Jonathan!

In our Church, First Holy Communion is an amazing event, a coming of age if you will. It's more than some milestone that you may or may not remember in years to come. As we progress in our Faith, we get to experience going to our Lord's table each Sunday, and as often as daily if we choose.

Let me just take a few moments to really share why we love our Faith. When children enter the age of reason (typically at age seven), they start studying about both Reconciliation and receiving Communion thereafter.

Let's look at it from a secular point of view for a minute. Most people think that it is a moment that the child is able to make that decision for themselves. I think of it as far more important than just that. Why? Because as parents we are called to make decisions in the best interest of our children. This explains the need (in part) for infant baptism. We wouldn't put our kids on a bike and expect them to know how to ride it without some kind of parental involvement.

The same logic follows when we decide we want to run a marathon. We don't just wake up and run a marathon - especially if you are out of practice or out of shape. There is a certain amount of logical and reasonable steps you must take in order to make crossing that goal line a success. Train hard, persistence, eating right. These are all healthy and necessary steps to eventually getting that medal of accomplishment for running 26.2 miles, right?

The same goes with the sacrament of Holy Communion. The communicants must first be properly educated in what exactly it means. We should never expect to receive Holy Communion unworthily - as St. Paul admonishes those who do in 1 Corinthians. So, before Holy Communion can occur, the children must prepare for and learn the steps to making a good First Reconciliation (or confession). A good examination of conscience is necessary using the Ten Commandments and the Beatitudes as ways to check our behavior against God's laws. Breaking commandments isn't simply breaking a rule for Catholics (and I heavily suspect our non-Catholic Christian brethren feel the same way), it is breaking us away from God - who is all good.

A really great priest (Fr. Jerome Fasano) explained in simple terms - my favorite kind with my simple brain - that you wouldn't wait until you were filthy dirty to wash your hands or bathe. Going to confession is like washing your soul. Going frequently will help keep you on the straight and narrow. Absolution is something every soul craves - just ask the convict in jail who couldn't keep his involvement in that murder from his cell mate. We crave making ourselves right with God, our fellow brothers (and sisters) and of course ourselves. And a priest is the only person who is bound not to share your sins with anyone else. Pretty cool, huh?

So, let me share a few pictures from Jonathan's First Holy Communion. It was such a cool day, Father Joel was in such a great mood, his homily rocked - as always - and the lunch at Mesa Rosa was awesome too.

{on our way out the door}

{because it was the non-celebratory mass, there were only three Communicants there and they got to bring up the gifts which is a big treat for kids}

{Father Joel dispensing Communion to Jonathan}

{Father Joel with Jonathan after mass - Jonathan was stoked when they announced Father Joel would be the celebrant and we were even more excited when he gave the homily and a special speech to the young boys about receiving the Eucharist. He said it was worth more than all the gold in the world.}

{My friend, Cindi, was kind enough to snap this shot of us together. Looks good to me!}